Category - anal
Anal sex might seem daunting, but its really not a big deal. Well go over all your burning questions, including whether it hurts, and offer tips to make your first time a good one. Its also not true that anal sex has to hurt or be dangerous, at all. First off, its highly unlikely that youll actually poop because of anal stimulation. But if youre extremely worried about it, there are a few things you can do to avoid an accident. When a man has sex for the first time, it shouldnt hurt, but you can make it easier for your partner through foreplay, making sure theres plenty of lubrication, and by being gentle and going slowly. Anal sex can be painful for men and women the first time, and there may be a little bleeding. If it hurts, then you need more lube and warming up (rimjob perhaps, or have regular sex first?). A couple of my ex-girlfriends actually genuinely preferred it to regular sex once they got into it, and started wanting it all the time (whats a boy to do?) so dont give up just yet - it may take a bit of practice for you to figure out how exactly its going to. Weve rounded up peoples general thoughts on the matter as well as some first-timer tips. anal sex may hurt the first time (and every time) if you dont use lube. The skin on your anus and rectum is delicate, and it doesnt make its own lubrication the way vaginas do. So using lube reduces friction, which helps prevent pain and tearing. I still dont enjoy it but my boyfriend loves it so i do it for him sometimes. And just because it doesnt hurt the first time doesnt mean it will never hurt. Women are told so many things about what sex first time feels like that theyre going to bleed like a stuck pig that its going to hurt like hell that it should only be with someone special. girls (and bottomsversatile guys), does anal sex hurt the first time? What does it feel like? Does it have any adverse effects? Im bisexual and have never done it with a man and i have a boyfriend.